We’re all searching

We’re all searching…. searching desperately for the reason to life, the meaning, true happiness, love, or the answer to our problems.

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Science tries to make sense of things through investigation of things seen, theologies, and studying life itself. Economical problems look to the government to solve the current economical pitfalls we face as a culture. An alcoholic drowns their sorrows in another beer. An addict feels the next fix is the solution to the problem. A broken heart searches for another to heal their ache. The unhappy seeks to find happiness. The poor seeks to not feel the burdens of poverty and looks to the rich man’s grass and wonders what it feels like to walk in his shoes only to find the rich man is still searching for something. The sick looks for the cure. No matter who we are, we have all been lost at sometime and searched out answers to our problems.

As I look around, I see a broken society. I see people getting divorced left and right and a shattered home is what is left. The parents are so banged up from the emotional and financial stress, they are simply broken. The children have felt the enormous weight and have no idea how to fix the problem. They are caught in the whirlwind of the war and have nowhere to turn. The parents, after some healing, seek out a new partner to heal their sorrow. Sometimes, the marriage withstands but other times, it is only ended in another broken home.

Children seek to their friends, parents, tv, society for the answers. Many children are not guided these days and the world teaches them its ways. They teach them how to be of this world but the world is broken.

Debt in America is SO huge, we think well if we can somehow climb out of this enormous debt we have created, things will be good again. As time passes, we just keep passing our debt on to the next generation and creating a bigger mess. Maybe the next president can help us. Maybe he has some answers.  Or maybe this other guy knows what he is talking about. Maybe he has the answers.

Science thinks they have it all figured out until, they don’t. They are looked to have all the big answers when all they have is evidence of things they can study right here and now. They can’t explain how the world really began and most don’t want to look to a Intelligent Designer to try to explain the unexplained. They can study, and study, and study, and when they die, there will still be problems they can’t explain. The Big Bang, Darwin’s Theory of Evolution and other theories that are being taught as truth to young children  have caused many to stumble in their faith. Don’t get me wrong, science has did many great things but the theories are only theories. A theory is an idea in which the person suspects. A thesis, hypothesis, and a theory all have to proven before it makes it true. So why is it Darwin’s theory of Evolution is said to be fact? Evolution does occur but it has it’s limit. The definition of theory is a supposition or a system of ideas intended to explain something, especially one based on general principles independent of the thing to be explained. “Darwin’s theory of evolution” No, I did not add the last part. That was the example given (see the picture below). define theory

Darwin studies the different beaks of the finch. And we can clearly see how things can adapt. But never has anyone seen any sign that we evolved from a monkey. A human has always been  a human. A monkey has always been a monkey. Science is putting their faith in science, man’s theologies, and denying God when they teach/believe these types of theologies that contradict God’s word. In the 2 Timothy, we read;

O Timothy, keep that which is committed to thy trust, avoiding profane and vain babblings, and oppositions of science falsely so called: Which some professing have erred concerning the faith. Grace be with thee. Amen. (2 Timothy 6:20-21)

The poor see the rich man driving these nice vehicles, living in these nice homes, and thinks “If I could make a little more money, my problems would be solved.” The rich man is looking to the richer man and thinking the same thing.

One who always seeks money will never be satisfied. If your heart craves the riches of this world, you will spend your whole life chasing after more money. There is many verses in the bible about the love of money and here is a few.

“For the love of money is the root of all evil: which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows.” (1 Timothy 6:10)

He that loveth silver shall not be satisfied with silver; nor he that loveth abundance with increase: this is also vanity.” (Ecclesiastes 5:10) 

“Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon earth, where moth and rust doth corrupt, and where thieves break through and steal: But lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust doth corrupt, and where thieves do not break through nor steal: For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.” (Matthew 6:19-21)

Some people look to religion, denominations, to find the key to this life. Maybe this religion over here is on to something. Maybe that denomination over there is better than the last one I was apart of. Some turn bitter before they truly find the true hope they were looking for.

The bible warns us that there will be many false teachers, false religions, and false doctrines. If we do not study for ourself we can not know which religions are false. Being a Christian is more than just going to church every Sunday. The Bible instructs us to take up our cross daily. The only way to know the Lord, we must dust off that Bible and study it for ourself.

“Finally, my brethren, be strong in the Lord, and in the power of his might.Put on the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil.For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places. Wherefore take unto you the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand. Stand therefore, having your loins girt about with truth, and having on the breastplate of righteousness;And your feet shod with the preparation of the gospel of peace;Above all, taking the shield of faith, wherewith ye shall be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked. And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God:Praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, and watching thereunto with all perseverance and supplication for all saints; ” (Ephesians 6:10-18)

“Now I beseech you, brethren, mark them which cause divisions and offences contrary to the doctrine which ye have learned; and avoid them.” (Romans 16:17)

“For such are false apostles, deceitful workers, transforming themselves into the apostles of Christ.And no marvel; for Satan himself is transformed into an angel of light. Therefore it is no great thing if his ministers also be transformed as the ministers of righteousness; whose end shall be according to their works.” ( 2 Corinthians 11:13-15)

“For God is not [the author] of confusion, but of peace, as in all churches of the saints.” (1 Corinthians 14:33)

Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves. Ye shall know them by their fruits. Do men gather grapes of thorns, or figs of thistles? Even so every good tree bringeth forth good fruit; but a corrupt tree bringeth forth evil fruit. A good tree cannot bring forth evil fruit, neither can a corrupt tree bring forth good fruit. Every tree that bringeth not forth good fruit is hewn down, and cast into the fire. Wherefore by their fruits ye shall know them.

Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of my Father which is in heaven. Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works? And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity.” (Matthew 7:15-23)

Throughout all the history of mankind, we have searched for these big answers to the answers to life. As a Christian, I see the brokenness of the world and want to tell them the answer. I want to tell them about the enlightenment of my hope, my faith, the love of Jesus Christ, and our heavenly father. I want to shout out to everyone but no one wants to hear it. I was once deaf but now I hear.

I can see divorce is not the answer. Science is not the answer. More money is not the answer. Man-made religions, violence, cruelty, drugs, alcohol, stealing, lying, cheating, government, gossiping, food, new shiny thingies, fighting, and whatever else we use try to fix the problems.   I see all these things that we have tried to fit into the blank and have not worked but yet generation after generation, we think well maybe, it’ll work this time. I want to show them the answer but no one wants to see….. I was once blind but now I see.

I truly believe we are born with the desire to seek out the Father. We have it instilled in us but on our journey, the devil pulls us down all the confusing paths and we get lost. He holds up a sign that says “Here are the real answers. ____ is the answer. Follow me.” Some will find it for a short period of time only to pulled right back into the ways of this world. And many will wonder around this earth and never find it. Very few will find what really fills their soul. Through all the ups and downs of this life, they have that solid ground to withstand all the ammo the devil has to fire.

As a Christian, it is disheartening that no one wants to hear about this awesome thing you have found. When you buy this new thingy that is the coolest thing since sliced bread, people want to know about it. They rush out and buy it. Not giving it a second thought. But when you have found the best treasure your have EVER found, you’re just religious.

You have found this hope in the bleakest of times. You have this new sense of life. You have found the real reason, the real answer, and this amazing love. And through this amazing love, you have felt love deeper than you ever have. It has changed you for the better. You want to do good things. And while others see the great news as only a set of rules to follow that only chains one down, you feel free. Your chains have been broke from the bondage of sin.  And not only are you free, you have this sense of peace even in a raging storm. You have the best news ever! You want to share it with everyone but very few will have an ear to hear or eyes to see.

Jesus answered them, Verily, verily, I say unto you, Whosoever committeth sin is the servant of sin. And the servant abideth not in the house for ever: but the Son abideth ever. If the Son therefore shall make you free, ye shall be free indeed. (John 8:34-36)

 

You can see the destruction your own selfish desires can bring. You see why God says not to do certain things. He says it for your own self good. And just like any good father would do, he warns you of these ways.

The answer is the Lord. His ways are good. He is good. He is love. He is the way, the truth, and the light.He is the beginning and the end.  If we try to live by the moral ways of the Lord, our ways will be right. As a human, we often like to justify our ways to our own self desires. Our morals began to crumble if we all do this. What might be right in one’s eyes might be wrong in another. Suddenly things that were once wrong seem ok. Our society is broken because our foundation is no longer standing on a firm ground. Our nation was once a great nation that was built with Christ as the foundation. But slowly, Christ is being pulled out from our nation.

America’s  founding father’s set up on nation on the morals of God. In the beginning of the school systems, our own government printed the Bibles to be used in the classroom. Now, we can’t say a prayer before a football game. (I recommend watching Monumental. If you have Amazon prime, it is free. If not, you can buy Monumental for $10.69 or you can rent Monumental for $3.99) If you seek the Lord, live by his ways, society is better as whole. The bible tells us not to lie, cheat, steal, murder, gossip, be unjust, not to hate anyone but love one another, help one another, give to the needy, respect the elderly, and do good things. And then, we are to teach them to our own children. If we were all to follow this rule, this world would be a better place.  Each person would be a better person. Our nation could be great once again. You see, the answer is the Lord.

Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths. Be not wise in thine own eyes: fear the Lord, and depart from evil. (Proverbs 3:5-7)

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your Own Worst Enemy

When you think of your own worst enemy, you probably think of someone who has insulted you, dislikes you immensely maybe even hates you, calls you names, looks down on you, sees all your flaws, speaks of you badly, and thinks you’re worthless. Sometimes, your own worst enemy is you.

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How many times have you looked in the mirror and saw nothing but your flaws? How many times have you called yourself names such as ugly, fat, stupid, weird? How many times have you thought you’re worthless? Have you ever made a mistake and beat yourself up over it? If I was to bet, we all have done these things to ourselves. We treat ourselves like we are our own worst enemy.

Your soul is valuable to the Lord so why do we doubt our worth? Maybe we forget what the scripture says, never read it, or maybe we have been told a lie so many times, we begin to believe it.  Your soul is worth more than all the riches of the world, all the animals, and above all the lavish things of this world. Your soul is worth the price of Jesus’s blood.

Whenever you start to forget your worth, here are some scriptures to remind you.

“I’m worried about something…”

“Take therefore no thought for the morrow: for the morrow shall take thought for the things of itself. Sufficient unto the day is the evil therof. (Matthew 6:34)

“I’m afraid or fearful….”

“The Lord is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear? the Lord is the strength of my life; of whom shall I be afraid” (Psalms 27:1)

“I’m feeling alone.”

“Let your conversation be without covetousness; and be content with such things as ye have: for he hath said, I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee.” (Hebrew 13:5)

“I’m broke and have no money.”

Hearken, my beloved brethren, Hath not God chosen the poor of this world rich in faith, and heirs of the kingdom which he hath promised to them that love him?” (James 2:5)

Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon earth, where moth and rust doth corrupt, and where thieves break through and steal: But lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust doth corrupt, and where thieves do not break through nor steal:” (Matthew 6: 19-20)

“I want”/ “I need….”

Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat, or what ye shall drink; nor yet for your body, what ye shall put on. Is not the life more than meat, and the body than raiment?Behold the fowls of the air: for they sow not, neither do they reap, nor gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father feedeth them. Are ye not much better than they?Which of you by taking thought can add one cubit unto his stature?And why take ye thought for raiment? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow; they toil not, neither do they spin:And yet I say unto you, That even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these.Wherefore, if God so clothe the grass of the field, which to day is, and to morrow is cast into the oven, shall he not much more clothe you, O ye of little faith? Therefore take no thought, saying, What shall we eat? or, What shall we drink? or, Wherewithal shall we be clothed?(For after all these things do the Gentiles seek:) for your heavenly Father knoweth that ye have need of all these things. But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.” (Matthew 6:25-33)

“I’m ugly, wierd looking, or physcially unattractive…”

“Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised.” (Proverbs 31:30)

But the Lord said unto Samuel, Look not on his countenance, or on the height of his stature; because I have refused him: for the Lord seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the Lord looketh on the heart.” (1 Samuel 16:7)

“I have done so many horrible things. How can I forgive myself? How can God forgive me?”

If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” (1 John 1:9)

“I’m worthless…”

For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” John3:16

“I’m weak…”

“And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.Therefore I take pleasure in infirmities, in reproaches, in necessities, in persecutions, in distresses for Christ’s sake: for when I am weak, then am I strong. ” (2 Corinthians 12:9-10)

These are just a few reminders of how much we are worth. Don’t let anyone convince you otherwise.

Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time: Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you. Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour:Whom resist stedfast in the faith, knowing that the same afflictions are accomplished in your brethren that are in the world. (1 Peter 5: 6-9) 

As I was playing with photoshop creating the image to go along with this post, the song “You are more” by Tenth Avenue North and I really feel it goes with this topic. The song goes like this;

Don’t you know who you are, what’s been done for you?

Don’t you know who are.

You are more than the choices that you’ve made.

You are more than the sum of past mistakes.

You are more than the problems you create.

You’ve been remade.

This is not about what you’ve done.

But what’s been done for you. This is is not about where you’ve been. 

But where your brokenness brings you to. 

This is not about what you feel. 

But what He felt to forgive you. 

And what He felt to make you loved

Why our family does a daily devotional

Give us this day our daily bread

Give us this day our daily bread

Feeding our spirit

Jesus told us to ask for our bread daily and while some might think this is talking about bread you can make in the bread machine or bread you purchase at the store, there is a deeper meaning.

Give us this day our daily bread. (Matthew 6:11)

Jesus fasted for 40 days in the wilderness and he was very hungry. The devil tried to tempt Jesus with food and this was his reply.

But he answered and said, It is written, Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceedeth out of the mouth of God. (Matthew 4:4)

The word of God should be our daily bread that we eat daily. To strengthen and feed our spirit. We know that if we do not eat food for our body, we become weak, we don’t think clearly, it is easier to fall into temptation (grab the bag of chips instead of snack on something healthy), and become tired. I think the same happens to your spirit. If you do not feed it daily, it becomes weak, it is harder to fight temptation, it is harder recognize right from wrong, to apply the teachings to our self, and it is hard to get to know the Lord.

Diligently Seeking Him

I was reading an article earlier and it stated that the majority of Christians do not read their bible. This is a sad reality. I cannot boast that I have read the entire bible nor can I boast that I have always read it daily. And while I was raised up being taught the word, there is many parts that I do not know or need refreshed on. It took me a long time to realize this but you have to seek the Lord daily. You have to diligently and patiently seek him. Sometimes in the English language, we tend to throw words around without the full meaning behind the word. The definition of diligent is; in a manner involving great or constant activity. A few synonyms for diligently is actively, laboriously, vigorously. 

But without faith it is impossible to please him: for he that cometh to God must believe that he is, and that he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him. (Hebrews 11:6)

Many are going to think reading the bible daily is hard to fit into your schedule but we always make time for things we want to do. Many of us spend countless hours on Facebook, YouTube, watching TV, texting, talking on the phone, or whatever we decide to do. I am fully certain that there is a way to fit in 30 mins into our daily schedule to spend some time in God’s word. Even if that may be downloading the Bible.is app and listening to the bible in your car.

Why it is important to read as a family

Our children learn by example. We can tell them all day long that they need to study the bible for themselves but unless we set an example for them, they will not always take it to heart. Our children are constantly learning the good and the bad examples we set for them. There are times when I lose my temper and then later on, I see my children mimicking this behavior. Or I can ask them nicely to clean their room and then I will see my 6 year old politely asking her sister if she will help pick up the room. Why? I believe it is instilled in a child to seek guidance from their parents.

If our children see us diligently studying the bible and making it a priority in our life, they will learn that the bible is truly an important book. That there truly is words of wisdom in this book and we can use it daily to apply it in our own life.

And ye shall teach them your children, speaking of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, when thou liest down, and when thou risest up. (Deuteronomy 11:19)

Where to start

Decide on a good time to read or listen. For us, we have decided as a family to read after supper. We gather in the living and even our 6 year old follows along.

On most days we read a chapter a day. If the chapter is a little longer, we will split it up. We feel a chapter a day isn’t overwhelming. It is just enough to learn and truly absorb the lessons. It easily fits into our schedule. (If you read my previous posts, are schedules can be hectic with my husband working full time and full time college, a 6 year old, 2 year old, homeschooling, and all the daily chores.)

Who does the reading?

My husband reads on most days. Since he is the head of the household we feel it is only appropriate for him to lead the readings but we aren’t completely strict on this. I have also read the chapter if the hubby isn’t feeling well or is extremely tired. My 6 year old also reads the last verse. This is how we do it but you can do this however you see fit. If you have older children, you could have them take turns reading.

After the reading, our 6 year old usually has tons of questions and we take that time to answer any questions she has. Then we go over the chapter and explain it to her.

I think this is a given but our 2 year old doesn’t participate in the reading like the rest of us. She usually colors, draws, does a foam puzzle, or plays like she is reading a bible. Remember what I said about mimicking our behavior?? Our 2 year old has to have a bible when we start whether she flips through it or not. She wants to participate in our readings. She feels involved by having a bible by her side or flipping through it.

We also sing songs of praise before and after the lesson. We each pick a song and we ALL participate in this. LOL. Both of our daughters love this part!

What do you need?

You do NOT need to go buy anything. I actually strongly encourage you to only use the bible. We can learn many things from other people, there is also those who can lead us astray. So I say stick to the bible. All you need is your family present and a Bible. If you do not have a bible, there are tons of FREE Bible apps. I recommend the YouVersion Bible App (www.youversion.com). It is completely free and supported on iPhone, iPad, Android devices, Blackberry, Windows, Kindle Fire, and on the web. I really enjoy the app, but sometimes I want a book to hold in my hand. If you don’t have a Bible, you can generally pick them up at Wal-Mart for $10-15. Lifeway and Christian Books often have sales on bibles. I have seen them for $5-$10 for the nicer bibles. If you don’t have the money for that, I have seen them at the dollar stores for about $5. I have even seen them at Dollar Tree for a $1! And if your super tight on money, most local churches would love to give you a bible for free.

I would rather listen to the bible

There are some that would rather listen instead of read the Bible. Often, many feel intimidated by the bible and can get tripped up over words. And that is OK but if you just really want to listen instead of read out loud, or maybe the time you can dedicate is in the car, there are ways to do that.

The Youversion Bible App allows you to listen to the bible if you’re online. If you have unlimited data plan on your phone, then this may the option for you. If I am home, my phone and iPad is connected to my wifi but if I’m in the car, this isn’t an option. It could easily blow my data if I did it often. So if you would like to listen to the bible when your not connected to wifi and do not have unlimited data, here are your options.

Bible.is app allows you to download chapters  or the books of the bible. They have drama and non drama audio files. You just have to make sure you click on the downloaded files (they will be blue) and are not streaming the files if you do this from your phone.

There is also a Podcast you could download called “You’ve got the Time” or “Faith Comes by Hearing.”

Reading Plan

You don’t need to find a fancy reading plan to begin reading. The best reading plan I have followed was FREE. Begin with Mark. It is one of the shortest of the Gospels and it won’t seen so daunting to start off with. Then move over to Matthew. Matthew is lengthier and has more detail. Read John next. Then Luke. After you have finished the gospels you can start working your way through the rest of the New Testament. Going straight through from Acts to Revelations.

Or a reading plan that I think might work a little better is to read Galatians after you finish the gospels. Galatians tells why we do not follow the Old Testament Laws anymore. Then move through the rest of the New Testament.

Then tackle the Old Testament. Beginning in Genesis and work straight through Malachi.

Reading Plan 1

  1. Mark
  2. Matthew
  3. John
  4. Luke
  5. Read Acts- Revelations straight through
  6. Start the Old Testament in Genesis and work straight through to Malachi

Reading Plan 2

  1. Mark
  2. Matthew
  3. John
  4. Luke
  5. Galations
  6. Acts- Revelations (skipping over Galations since you read it before)
  7. Genesis-Malachi in order

My recommendation on a translation

There are so many translations so which one do you choose? I highly recommend the King James Version. I won’t get into a whole lot of detail right now (that is to come in a later post). You might be thinking, well the King James Version has all the “thees and thous” in it. I promise, after reading for a little while, you it won’t even notice it. Another argument for the KJV is that it is hard to understand. Actually, the KJV uses less complicated words than many of the other versions. The KJV uses 1 and 2 syllable words while the other versions use multi complex syllable words. The KJV also has a lower average reading level score when compared to other versions. If you would like more information about how the KJV isn’t harder to understand, jump over to this site (http://www.greatpreachers.org/KJV_harder2read.html)

My husband and I have often questioned which translation to read and after lots and lots of research, we always come back to the KJV. When you first pick it up or have slacked for a while and pick it up again, it may seem hard to read but you quickly get back to understanding it.

I can’t remember all the resources I have over the subject but you can head over to http://www.ahappyhomemedia.com/. On the right hand side under Happy Home Links, Kerrie Mae has listed a ton of sites that have information about the matter. Oh and check out a happy home media podcast and the site.

Sam Gipp has a lot of historical information about the KJV vs the other versions and how they came about.  Here is a short clip http://youtu.be/OIOUN6GJlJI He has more in depth videos about the subject.

While I know many are probably going to feel strongly about the translations issues, and this can often cause a heated debate, I strongly encourage everyone to do their own research on the matter and above all else, pray about it. I am not saying everyone has to agree with me on this matter but please be kind if you leave a comment.

Hope this helps!

I hope you all find this helpful! I hope it encourages others to start a family devotional, start back up, or encourage others to start one. If you have any questions, please feel free to ask!

All knowledge and wisdom comes from the Lord. And the only way to learn God’s word is to study his word. To gain understanding, we must study God’s word.

For the LORD giveth wisdom:out of his mouth cometh knowledge and understanding. (Proverbs 2:6)